More than 30 people gathered in the chapel at Naval Medical Center Portsmouth (NMCP) Feb. 5, during the 6th annual candle lighting remembrance service, honoring the memories of infants who have passed away.

The annual ceremony acknowledges the life of the child, however short, and acknowledges infant's family, including parents, brothers, sisters and grandparents. The ceremony was meant to help families address and work through the grief of losing a child.

"It is so important, because families need to know that their emotions and feelings are normal and that they are not alone," said Cmdr. Kerry Hudson, an obstetrics and gynecology physician at NMCP. "This reminds them that they are supported and have people to relate to."

Several staff spoke during the ceremony and joined the families in lighting candles to remember each child.

"It is important to me to be involved in this ceremony, because as an OB-GYN, I take care of a lot of the patients who have suffered perinatal losses," Hudson said. "I can empathize with these patients in their losses and help them understand that it is okay to mourn. I want patients to know that I applaud them for their strength."

"The ceremony is first and foremost for our bereaved families," said Norma Knightpongratz, NMCP's bereavement coordinator. "It is also therapeutic for our staff members who take part in caring for these families. The family members also appreciate seeing those faces who took care of them at one of the most difficult points in their lives."

The service included songs such as "Tears in Heaven" by Eric Clapton and the reading of several Bible passages. The ceremony ended with a reception that gave families the opportunity to connect and share their experiences with one another.

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